Sunday, February 19, 2012

Love

Love is a pretty strong word. Being in high school, kids are always saying oh I love this person so much they mean the world to me. Let's get real here. It isn't "real love",  it's just that you really like that person and you think that you are in love. Love cannot be defined at my age right now, but maybe it can when I get older. But being in high school and being in a relationship doesn't mean you are in love. The only way you could define love now at our age is if your family is involved. That is how I look at it.
     In my honest opinion, love is a feeling that you have when you just want to be surrounded by it at all times and you want nothing else but that. Yes I can say that I have felt and thought that I was in love, but I know that deep down it isn't real. I do love my family with all my heart because I know they are the only real people in my life, and will always be there for me. I have friends in my life that I do love, but it is a different kind of love. Im not saying that it is a bad thing, but it isn't the real meaning of love.
     Love is a single word with many different meanings. My father once told me this and I agree with him one hundred percent. It's a word that is thrown around a lot, and I think we should be smarter and only say it when you mean it. Personally, I do not think love has a look unless you can look at the one person you truly love and say yup that is what love looks like. What love feels like is a different story. It's a feeling that makes you all happy inside and gives you butterflies at all times no matter what. It is a feeling you get where you want to have it as long as you can, and nothing is better than that feeling. What it smells like, tastes like and sounds like I really do not know.  But I know when I find my true love one day, I will have no problem answering that question.
     I think that if you go out and look for love, it will be much harder to get it. I believe that true love comes to you and it finds you. That is just the way I see it. It can be hard for people to find love, but it also can be pretty easy to find it as well. You have to set your mind to love and once you have it, do whatever you can to keep it because it really is a special feeling. Yes there may be times when you want to get rid of love, but that may be for reasons that you have personally. I know that I never want to get rid of love because I want to be married one day and be in love and grow old with that special person.
     Overall, love is something that everyone wants one day in there life. You can't find love at a young age unless you are willing to keep that love forever. You see people who are married and say yes we were high school sweethearts. Now god bless them. There is nothing sweeter than love found in high school, but I find it to be rare. The people you can love for all your life is your family. So be careful with love because it can back fire on you, and just remember who will always love you at the end of the day.

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