Anger is defined as a strong feeling of displeasure or hostility.Everyone gets angry but a lot of people get angry at different things. It is an emotion that many people have trouble controlling. I consider that it is the hardest emotion to control. Many people struggle with controlling it and need to go to anger management classes.
I can get angry at a lot things. I don't get as angry as I did when I was younger but it is still pretty bad. When I get angry I get really angry. I usually get angry over the stupidest things. Let me say first i hate losing. When i was younger i was really into video games and i lost a lot when i played them. See losing is kind of a reasonable way to get angry, but get angry over video game is a very dumb reason. So when i lost, didn't just lose the game, i lost my temper to. I'd play a game of madden get blown out and then just start a hissyfit. I would use every curse word in my vocabulary and and throw anything that was in sight. I wouldn't punch anything because i didn't want to get hurt, but i put many holes in the wall from a ps2 remote or the tv remote. The best to handle that situation was to stop playing video games for awhile, so i did.
Now that i am older and more mature i learned to control my anger problems. Mostly because i just stopped caring about winning so much. I still hate losing with a passion but winning isn't everything to me now. So when i play video games and lose it doesn't bother me as much. Now i get angry at things like when people argue over extremely dumb things, even though it has nothing to do with me it just bothers me so much. Like my parents just have that caterogry covered. Also when you ask someone numerous times to stop doing something but they just continue doing it any way. Also when i'm doing something and my parents ask me to help them with somethinng i get pretty angry to. I don't understand why i just can't help it. I am aslo a very impatient person so i can't stand in long lines for very long.
The way I control most of my anger problems by having a clicky pen i just keep clicking it. Its like a stress ball to me, it keeps me pre-occupied and just helps me a lot. Like when I'm in the lunch room waiting to get my food it helps a lot having a clicky pen with me. Its the best strategy i have to help me control it. But i don't think it helps me that much because i think the best way to get rid of anger it just to flip out or something. Like when i used to throw remotes i felt like all of the anger just left me and i was really relieved. Now however i always feel like there just anger in me waiting to be unleshed. When i get angry i try to be alone if im going to curse or thrown things because i don't want to see me doing something stupid or saying something that might hurt them. The only advice I would have for someone would be just to find something that can help them get the anger out like find a happy place or something else.
Sunday, September 25, 2011
Sunday, September 18, 2011
friends
Having friends make going through life so much easier. The number of friends doesn't really matter because its just better to have some friends then not to have friends at all. No matter if what the case is, you do just want those two or three friends you can always count on and will be there for you.
Many people now have a lot of "kind of" friends just to fit in with other crowds. The more friends you have the more popular you are. No one now in days really take consideration on who there true friends really are. Kids for instance hang out with other kids who drink or smoke just to make themselves look cooler. And those are the types of kids who leave there real friends behind and hang out with "kind of" friends. Having one good friend in my opinion isn't enough you need at least three really good ones.
I have never personaly known some one with hundreds of friends they actually know. I do however know people who have over 1,000s of friends on facebook. And those are usaully the kids that have a lot of friends and not a few close ones. Having over 1,00 friends on facebook doesn't really do much cause of many of those friends do you actually know. I don't think friends with many friends are happier than those with only a few friends. I think just having some friends can make any one happy.
You can have numerous friends, or a few friends but in the end it doesn't matter how many friends you have it just matters that you have friends to go through life with and you always know will be there for you.
Many people now have a lot of "kind of" friends just to fit in with other crowds. The more friends you have the more popular you are. No one now in days really take consideration on who there true friends really are. Kids for instance hang out with other kids who drink or smoke just to make themselves look cooler. And those are the types of kids who leave there real friends behind and hang out with "kind of" friends. Having one good friend in my opinion isn't enough you need at least three really good ones.
I have never personaly known some one with hundreds of friends they actually know. I do however know people who have over 1,000s of friends on facebook. And those are usaully the kids that have a lot of friends and not a few close ones. Having over 1,00 friends on facebook doesn't really do much cause of many of those friends do you actually know. I don't think friends with many friends are happier than those with only a few friends. I think just having some friends can make any one happy.
You can have numerous friends, or a few friends but in the end it doesn't matter how many friends you have it just matters that you have friends to go through life with and you always know will be there for you.
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